When it gets close to the time for delivery, women have generally already decided how it is they want to give birth to their babies. Many have likely given it a lot of thought about whether a C-section, vaginal birth, water birth, natural birth, and more are the right option for them. That means if a doctor were to spring on them that they believed a C-section was the way to deliver and that was not the choice for giving birth, anxiety, confusion, and the like could set in.
And this leaves women wondering what to do if they are strongly against a C-section but the doctor suddenly recommends it.
The way babies are delivered is a very personal decision for women. Because of this, when the mode of delivery is not available or being recommended against that women wanted to use, life can go into a small tailspin.
After all, women are in a very vulnerable situation when they give birth and want to be as comfortable as possible. And telling them that a C-section is needed out of nowhere is not a way to make that happen.
Here is what to do if you are strongly against a C-section, but a doctor suddenly recommends it.
Ask Why The C-Section Is Being Recommended
If a doctor suddenly recommends a C-section, one of the first things that women should do is ask why a C-section is being recommended.
According to Crystal Run Healthcare, doctors will recommend babies be born via C-section either before labor has started as an unplanned C-section or after labor has begun for an emergency C-section. The reasons that a doctor would recommend either, per the publication include:
Unplanned C-section: If multiple babies are being born, position of the baby will not allow them to be vaginally born, placenta is wrapped around the baby, the baby is large, or a health condition was discovered with the baby, doctors may recommend an unplanned C-section .
Emergency C-section: When labor has been going on for more than 20 hours, if babies have failed to progress after 14 hours, there is fetal distress, the umbilical cord falls through the cervix, or placenta begins to tear away from the uterine wall, an emergency C- section will be recommended by doctor.
In most cases, it is the health of the mother or the baby that causes doctors to recommend a C-section. But being armed with the knowledge as to why it is being recommended can help mothers reconcile having one or refuse.
Find Out How Many C-Sections The Doctor Has Performed
Before agreeing to have a C-section, women should find out how many C-sections their doctor has performed. After all, it is a major surgery and one that takes skill. Therefore, it is a reasonable question to ask.
If women find out that their doctor has performed a decent number of C-sections, then that can give them comfort that he or she is proficient with what they are doing.
However, if they have never performed one, if the length of time since their last one is fairly long, or there just is not a lot of experience, women can request a different doctor perform the C-section.
Ask What To Expect With A C-Section
Most women have a vague idea as to what a C-section. But until one has been experienced, they truly do not know. That is why asking questions about what to expect is good to do when a C-section has been recommended.
According to WebMDwhat women can expect when it comes to a C-section includes:
- Women will be washed and shaved to prep for surgery
- A catheter will be inserted into the bladder
- Needle will be placed in the arm to give fluids
- An anesthetic will be given
- The stomach will be washed and draped
- A screen will be put up, so women cannot see the surgery
- An incision will be made down to the uterus
- Amniotic sac will be broken
- Baby will be removed from the sac
- Uterus and abdomen will be stitched up
- Moms will meet their babies
- Moms are taken to the recovery room
This is what happens in a nutshell. When women come out of recovery is when they will be moved to a postpartum room. And from there, they will care for their babies as well as they can, likely with assistance, after their C-section.
Doctor Cannot Force You To Have A C-Section
At the end of the day, regardless of what the doctor recommends, a doctor cannot force women to have a C-section, according to the Georgia Birth Advocacy Coalition.
As such, if women feel strongly about not having one, and they feel pressured to have a C-section, they can keep their doctors and refuse. Or, they can look for a doctor who is on the same page as them. The choice is theirs. Just as it is regarding whether they will have a C-section or not.
Source: Crystal Run Healthcare, WebMD, Georgia Bith Advocacy Coalition