Camila Cabello reveals she is taking a relaxed approach to her love life

links patrocinados

Camila Cabello has revealed that she no longer puts ‘any pressure’ on her romantic relationships and thinks everyone is ‘bats**t crazy’ in their own way.

links patrocinados

The singer, 25, who split from her ex-boyfriend Shawn Mendes in November 2021, told Cosmopolitan UK that while she was very focused on having relationships in the past, she no longer puts too much pressure on it.

She said: ‘I don’t put a lot of focus on it. I just really want to hang out with people, I want to make friends and I’ve made a lot of great friends over the past year.

Candid: Camila Cabello has revealed she no longer puts 'any pressure' on her romantic relationships and thinks everyone is 'bats**t crazy' in their own way

Candid: Camila Cabello has revealed she no longer puts 'any pressure' on her romantic relationships and thinks everyone is 'bats**t crazy' in their own way

Candid: Camila Cabello has revealed she no longer puts ‘any pressure’ on her romantic relationships and thinks everyone is ‘bats**t crazy’ in their own way

‘If something happens, then that’s really fun, but I don’t put any pressure on it. Before I used to be like, “Yes, love, oh my God, love,” and now I’m just trying to have a good time.

I just want to live my life and have great friendships. If something comes out of [them] that’s something more, then that’s great.’

links patrocinados

Camila and fellow singer Shawn started dating in 2019 and spent the coronavius ​​lockdown together.

Prior to her romance with Shawn, the former Fifth Harmony star was in a relationship with dating coach and writer Matthew Hussey from 2018 to 2019.

Love life: The singer, 25, who split from her ex-boyfriend Shawn Mendes in November 2021, told Cosmopolitan UK that while she was very focused on having relationships in the past, she no longer puts too much pressure on it

Love life: The singer, 25, who split from her ex-boyfriend Shawn Mendes in November 2021, told Cosmopolitan UK that while she was very focused on having relationships in the past, she no longer puts too much pressure on it

Love life: The singer, 25, who split from her ex-boyfriend Shawn Mendes in November 2021, told Cosmopolitan UK that while she was very focused on having relationships in the past, she no longer puts too much pressure on it

Back when she was still a member of Fifth Harmony, Camila dated YouTube star Austin Mahone in 2014, saying he was her ‘first kiss’ and ‘first love’.

Camila also got candid about her mental health, saying she struggled with anxiety for much of her late teens and early twenties.

She said: ‘It was something I just lived with. I was used to having functioning anxiety that got really bad every half a year.

‘Then I started opening up to friends, and I realized how much suffering and neuroses are normal, and that we’re all bats**t crazy in our own way, but when it keeps you from having healthy relationships and being more often than not in a relatively stable place, that I needed to seek out some therapy.

Talking about it really helped me realize, “Oh, I think this is making my life harder than it is for other people.” ‘

She said: 'I don't put a lot of focus on it.  I just really want to hang out with people, I want to make friends and I've made a lot of great friends over the past year'

She said: 'I don't put a lot of focus on it.  I just really want to hang out with people, I want to make friends and I've made a lot of great friends over the past year'

She said: ‘I don’t put a lot of focus on it. I just really want to hang out with people, I want to make friends and I’ve made a lot of great friends over the past year’

On her weekly therapy sessions, she added: ‘I think pretending is a form of psychological torture and brings the most anxiety.

We do that so much in our society and culture. We’re constantly hustling and putting on a smile when we don’t feel good.’

Camila added that she has become ‘more relaxed’ as she got older, saying: ‘They don’t say older and wiser for no reason.

I’m more relaxed, at ease and sure of what I want. All the hell I experienced – whether it was in my mind, outside my mind, in little waves or big waves – taught me how to find the peace that I’m getting now.’

Ex: Camila and fellow singer Shawn started dating in 2019 and spent the coronavius ​​lockdown together (pictured in September 2021)

Ex: Camila and fellow singer Shawn started dating in 2019 and spent the coronavius ​​lockdown together (pictured in September 2021)

Ex: Camila and fellow singer Shawn started dating in 2019 and spent the coronavius ​​lockdown together (pictured in September 2021)

Former flame: Prior to her romance with Shawn, Camila was in a relationship with dating coach and writer Matthew Hussey from 2018 to 2019 (pictured in 2018)

Former flame: Prior to her romance with Shawn, Camila was in a relationship with dating coach and writer Matthew Hussey from 2018 to 2019 (pictured in 2018)

Former flame: Prior to her romance with Shawn, Camila was in a relationship with dating coach and writer Matthew Hussey from 2018 to 2019 (pictured in 2018)

First love: Back when she was still a member of Fifth Harmony, Camila dated YouTube star Austin Mahone in 2014, saying he was her 'first kiss' and 'first love' (pictured in June 2022)

First love: Back when she was still a member of Fifth Harmony, Camila dated YouTube star Austin Mahone in 2014, saying he was her 'first kiss' and 'first love' (pictured in June 2022)

First love: Back when she was still a member of Fifth Harmony, Camila dated YouTube star Austin Mahone in 2014, saying he was her ‘first kiss’ and ‘first love’ (pictured in June 2022)

Camila also discussed feeling vulnerable in relationships, saying she no longer worries about it as much as she once did.

She said: ‘It’s like if you tell a guy that you like him, the minute he leaves, you’re like, “Oh my god, why did I say that? That was so stupid.

I remember feeling like that when I came out of the booth afterwards [recording] this song [Psychofreak]. I’d just said all these crazy f**king things like, “When we’re making love, I want to be there.”

I said so many other things that didn’t even make it into the song. I thought, “Is everyone going to think I’m a weirdo?”

Camila said: 'If something happens, then that's really fun, but I don't put any pressure on it.  Before I used to be like, 'Yes, love, oh my god, love,' and now I'm just trying to have a good time'

Camila said: 'If something happens, then that's really fun, but I don't put any pressure on it.  Before I used to be like, 'Yes, love, oh my god, love,' and now I'm just trying to have a good time'

Camila said: ‘If something happens, then that’s really fun, but I don’t put any pressure on it. Before I used to be like, ‘Yes, love, oh my god, love,’ and now I’m just trying to have a good time’

The ‘vulnerability hangover’ is so real, which is why the people you have around you are so important…Every single time I’ve been vulnerable, someone has said, “That’s not weird, that’s totally normal.” ‘

Camila said she hopes to keep her professional and personal lives separate, noting Ed Sheeran as someone she would like to emulate in this way.

She said: ‘He just strives to be an artist, and then also just lives his life as a normal dude. He has a whole private life that people don’t know about, where he has fun, hangs out with his friends, has a family, has dinner with the people he loves.

I think Ed just lives it – he’s just out here trying to have fun with good people and make music he loves. And that’s the same thing I’m trying to do.’

The full interview can be read in the Aug/Sept issue of Cosmopolitan UKon sale from 12 July.

Feature: The full interview can be read in the Aug/Sept issue of Cosmopolitan UK, on ​​sale from July 12

Feature: The full interview can be read in the Aug/Sept issue of Cosmopolitan UK, on ​​sale from July 12

Feature: The full interview can be read in the Aug/Sept issue of Cosmopolitan UK, on ​​sale from July 12

Source: | dailymail.co.uk

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.